Hey Layla - welcome to the party. If you have any questions let us know.
I think a lot of us share the same sentiments as you and think that Deirdre should be brought in to the fold. We actually are unable to contact Deirdre as we only have her blog and for some reason she cannot read any of our comments except for Cole’s. @Robert wrote an open letter to Cole and Cole seemed very resistant to the idea of telling Deirdre. We could keep pestering him and see if he will tell her about us, but that could upset him and push him away. As I said, I’m definitely for telling Deirdre as all of this could really help her but we need Cole’s help so he would have to agree on this point.